Why Do I Feel So Alone?
Sending a smiley face doesn’t say it at all.
Why, if there are 7 billion people on Earth, do I feel so alone? This is what Ruby Wax asks in her book A Mindfulness Guide for the Frazzled. The author, comedian and TV writer talks of the horrible realisation that she hasn’t spoken with her ‘mouth or seen the flesh of a real friend for twelve years.’
Another thing she can no longer remember to do is how to say ‘I miss you’. Emoticons are her go-to tool for expression and everyone from her husband to her bank manager and her plumber get a similar digital sign-off. And yet all this interconnectedness doesn’t help. Despite all the methods of communication available to us today, many people still feel lonely (at times, or all the time). Because the less we feel the need to emotionally connect with each other, the more our ability to [diminishes].
- When did you last meet that friend or relative in real life?
- Will you choose to articulate your feelings instead of selecting that pumping heart emoji? Is it difficult or easy? What impact does it have on you?
- Do you ever feel lonely? What steps can you take to remedy this?